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5 Things You Can Do To Spice Up Your Relationship
By Danielle Sharpe
Like lingerie, there is no shortage of women in the world. The difference between what's considered sexy is, like beauty, in the eye of the beholder. What makes something sexy is where the uniqueness comes into play. It used to be that lingerie was unique because the market was not glutted, it wasn't easily accessible as it is now online, it was taboo, and women's daytime apparel wasn't as sexy as it is now. Sexy lingerie or intimate lingerie, is so prevalent that the visual shock appeal and titillation isn't what it used to be. Now that the undergarments have desensitized the audience, and shrunk down to threads, you have to add more to get more razzle dazzle to your relationship than sexy lingerie or intimate lingerie. The person planning to wear the lingerie has to get into the "A Game" zone. Lingerie are part of the Adult game. Communication, the foreplay, the settings, the mood, the music and the players all play a part. Undergarments are the play gear before the big event. Make undergarments a surprise. Don't buy an item yourself. End a date night with a reveal. Play your role like you want that Oscar. Talk to your partner before, during and after the game with enthusiasm and interest to explore what you each like. For example, when discussing visuals, talk about types of garments, colors, and fabric that do the trick for each of you. Before game day, you can add or confirm what you don't like, and inquire about or confirm things that turn your partner off. Be certain to coach and cheer your partner on when they hit the right buttons for positive reinforcement whether talking or acting together. You can even suggest a sexy variation of "Simon Says" to keep things playful for game day. His and her fashions are a two-way street full of pleasant surprise for everyone. If you want your partner to experience the foreplay before the game, send him into the equipment store solo to sup rise you. Let him have free rein, with the promise that whatever comes home is fair game. In this regard, women can also get free rein to get her guy something for her to wear, with the promise that he'll wear it when presented. Hide your present(s) like it's Christmas. By not revealing what your sweetie will receive until it's time, adds an element of suspense and visual pop when the clock strikes and it's time to rock. Do something different so it's memorable. Things that are out of the ordinary, can add some sizzle to your lifestyle, especially if things have become predictably comfortable. Go out on a date. Instead of going to your regular spots, try branching out. Maybe a dinner at what can become a culinary tour of eateries within and outside your city. See a movie before or after your meal. See a movie that is outside of your norm. Watch a different genre. Go to a different movie venue. Go to a different city. Meet up in separate cars, or car pool. Perhaps drive out of your area to a drive-in movie. Maybe go to a movie theater that serves adult beverages. Maybe try an adult movie theater in another city. Agree not to talk about the upcoming intimate event during your date. However, during the night cap, make your move. Take turns to decide who is going to set the agenda for the dessert to follow at home. You can do rock, paper, scissors, roll some dice, or whatever it takes to decide who goes first with the present. You both can present on the same day, or instead, you can decide to select a day for one of you to present your gift, and the other will present his or hers on another day. It is a game. A woman dresses up and becomes the personality associated with the outfit she's chosen. A man loves a good game, too. If the personality and the wardrobe do not match, then a disconnect is going to happen. The red velvet corset and black high heel boots with fishnets are going to set the stage and scenario. It's going to be opening night on the casting couch, and the roles have go to play out like you want Oscar himself. You've got do deliver the goods. Keep a memento, or create a shared buzzword about your game day. "Simon Says," the name of a song, or a refrain from a song that you played during your game day might become your inside secret password. It could be your game day song. An intimate memento that triggers spicy thoughts. Perhaps you and your partner can even each name 5 things that made your time together special. |
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Are you sure that you don't write love novels, Danielle?
Very interesting read and thank you for sharing.
Keep up the good work.
Best wishes.
Frederick
CONTRIBUTOR'S REPLY
I wish I had that kind of cash flow. Unfortunately, the Danielle Steele mixup happens all the time.
I am glad to hear that, "there is no shortage of women in the world."
CONTRIBUTOR'S REPLY
People are making new ones every single day too!
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